How to attract a Cancer

Cancer people are highly variable and often people that get carried away with their attempts and their emotions, which makes it difficult to establish patterns for getting to conquer them. In fact, people born under this sign are people who are under the influence of the moon, which makes them versatile like this one and they change their thinking by the day or the time they are in.

They are very insecure and somewhat emotionally unstable people, so they often look for their missing qualities in their partners, so that they can help them in their lowest or when they feel most vulnerable. But with everything, conquering a Cancer will be complicated and it is possible that there will be days when they will make us think about what we have and on other days it will not be so.

To conquer a cancer we must realize that we must be direct and very determined people. So when the right time comes we will be showing the feelings and take charge of the relationship. We cannot expect a Cancer to come to us and show us their feelings because he will not. We must use our intuition and, when the time comes, risk it and say things clearly.

To start with a plan of conquest, we should be his friends and be at his side. However, we should not burden him. Cancer ones are people who want to be with many people, so we should get into their group of friends and be with them just as we are with others. We must find something that an appeal to them, curiosity is something that Cancer really likes and is a way to make him come to us. We should not show all our cards to a Cancer at first. We must let him feel the curiosity and him coming to us and when he does, we must give him small doses of us, so he can continue getting more and more, closer.

On the other hand, we must be sure of ourselves and we should see that we have very clear ideas. If there is anything that can cause a Cancer to get away from us is, if he sees us as doubtful or unstable. For this, it is best if one day we feel low, we should not see them. On the one hand, we will keep the attention of Cancer not knowing why we are not with him that one day and on the other hand, we get to hide this part of us.

In addition, Cancer people are ones who like to be with friends and hate problems, so we must maintain good relationships with people and look for simplicity when difficult times arrive.

The key to conquering a Cancer is to show we are open and confident, because it is what he needs to feel good being with his partner. Be determined and not having much doubt will help us keep him around.